Is Manifesting Love actually possible? and if so, what steps do you have to take to get there? if you want to know the answer to these questions, keep reading!
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As someone who manifested her husband from her couch (true story), I wholeheartedly believe that you are capable of manifesting love. You just have to understand the concept of manifestation and know how to use it to your benefit.
Let’s get into manifestation! and if you read all the way to the end I’ll share a life-changing bonus tip with you.
What is Manifestation?
Manifestation seems like a very “woo-woo” and out-there concept when in reality it’s quite practical. By definition, manifestation is the process of bringing something that was once a thought, concept, or idea into physical form. From this definition, you can see that quite literally everything exists because of manifestation.
There are hundreds of manifestation experts out there but all of their advice typically boils down to the same steps:
- Get clear on your vision.
- Work through limiting beliefs.
- Take aligned action.
- Believe it’s already yours.
- Repeat.
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Is Manifestation Real?
Manifestation is a very practical and tangible concept. Hundreds of scientific studies back it up as well. I like to compare manifesting to goal mapping because it’s a concept that seems easier for most people to digest. You map out your goal, you assess any risks that will get in the way, you create a clear action plan and then you complete those actions. From that standpoint, manifestation is just goal mapping in which case it is absolutely real.
If you want to get more scientific about it; everything on this earth is made up of atoms, and atoms are primarily made up of empty space. We call this empty space “energy”, meaning everything on Earth is made up of energy. The energy of an atom exists in a wave (limitless possibilities), so if we are all made up of atoms which are essentially limitless energy then we are limitless. We can create anything we want to.
Neuroscience also tells us that our brains are always strengthening or weakening neural connections based on activity. Whatever beliefs you hold on to, whatever actions you take the most, are slowly becoming solidified as truth in your brain. Your brain is literally creating stronger neural connections. If you believe that you’re unloveable then your brain is going to take that as truth, create stronger neural connections to that truth, and use its energy to focus on that instead of what you want.
If we instead choose to focus on what we do want our brains can help us manifest that reality with neuroplasticity. Just call me Bill Nye babe.
3 Step BluePrint for Manifesting Love
Okay, you’ve digested a lot of information on manifesting. How can we use this information to manifest love? Well, I’ve amalgamated the details and broken it down into a three-step blueprint for you.
1 Get clear on what you’re looking for
All my type-A girlies, now is your time to shine! Get a pen and paper and do what you do best, make a list. Bonus points if you make a spreadsheet. All jokes aside, getting crystal clear on your vision and what you’re looking for in a partner is key.
How are you supposed to manifest love if you’re not even sure what that love looks like? Be as specific as it feels good to you (some people like to be a bit more broad and that works too). For example; you can say you’re looking for someone who has nice eyes and not have to name a specific color.
What does your dream partner do for fun? what is their personality like? what politics do you want to be aligned with? and most importantly, how do you want them to make you feel? Getting clear on the feeling is just as important as getting clear on the vision.
Once your list is complete review it and notice if there are any ways you’ve been self-sabotaging yourself. Maybe you want someone who’s open to starting a family but all you’ve been doing is dating party boys. Your list may be able to create some clarity around where you’ve been going wrong.
2. Lean into the feeling
When I was manifesting my husband I used to meditate by laying down with crystals on my chest and allowing myself to feel what it would be like to find him. I fully leaned into the feeling of this fictional relationship, and I allowed the emotions to overwhelm me to tears. This type of visualization and embodiment is so powerful.
We begin to believe in our manifestation on a cellular level. Have you ever had an intuitive feeling where your body physically reacted? Maybe you were in a job interview and your body tingled with excitement because you just KNEW that the job was going to be yours. This is how you want to feel during your meditation. You want a full body knowing that love is on its way to you.
3. Embody your list yourself
Take a look at the list you wrote in step one. Are you looking for a partner that’s social and loves attending new events with you? Start going to events. Are you looking for someone who takes you on romantic dinner dates? Take yourself on one. Whatever you are looking for in a partner, give it to yourself now. Embody your list and date yourself, this is going to build your self-worth and increase the magnetism of your energy. Your brain will see that you already have everything you’re looking for, the love is already yours, and your partner will manifest effortlessly.
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How to Amplify Your Manifestations
The secret ingredients to amplifying your manifestation ability are Gratitude + Aligned action. Let me explain. What we appreciate expands, if we want to create more of something in our lives we have to appreciate what’s already there. If you want to find your partner start practicing gratitude for the love that already exists in your life. Family, friends, even self-love. You can also start showing gratitude for the love that’s around you.
Rather than being jealous of couples you see in public or your best friend’s engagement announcement, be appreciative. The love that’s showing up around you is a sign that love is on its way to you as well. They say that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, so if all your friends are popping up in relationships, yours is on its way as well. We can choose to see the love around us as signs from the universe and be grateful rather than jealous.
Aligned action is when we take action from a place of alignment, alignment with our goals, and alignment with our higher self. If you’re looking for love, what are some actions that might be in alignment with you?
- re-download those dating apps.
- say yes to dates.
- say no to partners who are wasting your time and are emotionally unavailable.
Start taking action that will move you toward your goal of finding love instead of holding you back.
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